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Hair raising tips for your child’s hair

Hair artist Marcia Hamilton has famously worked with ten-year-old Willow Smith, whom she accompanied on tour with Justin Beiber in March. The sophisticated hairstyles which Smith has sported in her Whip Your Hair back video have led to some critics asking if hairstyles should have age certifications. Below is Hamilton’s guide to the rules to follow and break with your child’s hair.

Marcia Hamilton

Marcia Hamilton by Kawai Matthews (AirPhilosophy.com)

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As well as the wide tooth comb, the hair oil and the satin headscarf, managing your child’s hair takes time and attention; enter the hairdresser who can help define your child’s hair texture and treatment for it. Hamilton says: “I think parents should take their child to a professional at least every three or four months to have their hair conditioned and trimmed. Hair like ours tends to get dry very quickly and when you comb the hair it breaks because it’s so brittle and you get split ends and your hair will never have the chance to grow.”

There are other advantages to working with professionals as Hamilton explains: “A hair stylist lets you know where your child’s hair is at; I think sometimes parents get very busy and that child is left combing their own hair. I remember one of my friends decided to trust her daughter to take care of her hair. One day she combed it herself and found a dread in the back so we need to definitely keep on top of what’s going on!”

Products

In these austere times, paying a hairdresser can be hard so it is important for parents to familiarise themselves with the best products to use. Hamilton does not endorse any specific brand but she has advice about the ingredients you should look for. She says: “You want to choose a moisturising conditioner. Depending on the styles you do on your child’s hair, I would suggest you go a little more natural. Because your child’s hair is so gentle and sensitive, you should sulphate-free shampoo so that the natural oils aren’t stripped out of the hair.”

For a moisturising conditioner and sulphate-free shampoo try Phillip Kingsley’s Moisture Extreme shampoo and conditioner which have been created specifically for all variations of ethnic hair.

Moisture Extreme Shampoo £14.30

Moisture Extreme Conditioner £17.40

Styling

Pigtails and canerows no longer define little black girls. Increasingly their emblems are relaxers. Hamilton says: “I think as far as relaxing hair goes, if you’re not a teenager I don’t think you should because your hair structure has not fully developed yet. I think that before applying harsh chemicals you should definitely give it a minute.”

All types of pressure on the hair should be minimised from heat to tight hair bands. Hamilton explains: “Over my years I’ve noticed children who get their hair pulled too tightly starting to develop traction alopecia – thin hair around the perimeter of their head. Parents, do your self a favour and don’t brush or pull so tightly.

“When you’re getting braids be more gentle around the hairline and make bigger sections. Try different styles so not to get their hair accustomed to one thing and to avoid traction alopecia.”

With new young style icons emerging such as Willow Smith, parents are facing dilemmas about how to style their children’s hair. Smith is a singer and actress with superstar parents. Surely this gives her a license to have extreme hairstyles? Hamilton says: “When working with Willow, I usually like to create on what she is feeling in that moment depending on if it’s a red carpet event or if it’s a photo shoot. I build around the wardrobe and I build around emotions.”

Hamilton is almost emotional about the styles she has witnessed in the UK. “People in England just have a sense of their own style and they have and individual look as oppose to that cookie cutter look.”

Experiment

It can be hard for parents to admit that their child is growing up and leaving the cookie cutters behind. Sometimes we forget how much expression is a part of growing up. Hamilton say’s: “In 2011 I think a girl should be as expressive as she wants to be. If parents are more conservative they will guide their child in that direction. But I think that sometimes as parents we tend to impose on our kids what we feel and I think it’s important to listen to our children and keep an open mind. If they want to dye their hair flaming red; they’re six-years-old, you find a middle ground. Instead of dying her hair red like coolade, do a few streaks and play around. If a child wants to experiment with colour, instead of going full on with a permanent colour, you can experiment with cellophane and semi-permanent.

“Don’t give your ten-year-old daughter weave down her back but if she wants hair falling down her back, think about having braids. Find the middle ground in creating an age-appropriate style for a child.

“I definitely encourage parents to find some way that their kids can express themselves in beauty as opposed to in other ways. When kids don’t get what they want one way they go in another direction.”

Attitude

I love my hair

I love my Hair: TM and © 2011 Sesame Workshop. All Rights Reserved. Photographer: Zach Hyman.

In October 2010 the I Love My Hair song debuted on an episode of Sesame Street. The unnamed puppet with an Afro who sang an ode to her hair became an Internet sensation.

Joey Mazzarino, the head writer of Sesame Street, was inspired to write the song for his adopted Ethiopian daughter, who he noticed had reservations about her hair. Though the song touched adult and child alike in the virtual community, in the real world there continues to be conflict about definitions of ‘good’ hair.

Hamilton sees a correlation between hair and self-esteem. She says: “With your kids, you always need to let them know that what they possess is amazing and beautiful. Work with what they have instead of trying to get something totally different and teach them to love their own hair and to love themselves.

“I have clients that are in their forties that have had a relaxer since they were twelve-years-old and when I try to tell them well ‘let’s try something different’, they look at me like I’m crazy. Ever since they were twelve-years-old they were brainwashed that having kinky hair is not beautiful. So for me to suggest that to them at forty is like oh no! So if you start from when they’re young then you won’t run into these problems when they are older.”

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The UK Corner concert review: Fantasia @ Indigo2

Following PAs by Cherri V, Raymond & Co and Cynthia Erivo, at 9.45pm, fans may have feared that Fantasia wasn’t going to provide value for money but her set made the hour and 15 minutes that she was on stage seem elastic.

In an understated summer dress, Fantasia left the little black dress to her backing singer and kicked off her shoes though she temporarily left on her bling. Her comfortable look may fuel rumours that she is pregnant, but the way she bounced around the stage until her petticoat was showing may suggest otherwise.

Opening the set with Free Yourself followed by Man of The House, Fantasia soon had the crowd energised. With her warm and humorous girl next door attitude, Fantasia gibed about the security railings which separated the fans from the stage saying that she had threatened to walk off stage the last time she saw them.

She was in no mood for distance as she launched in the Motown tinged Collard Greens and Cornbread. This only got the crowd hungry for more of her heartfelt soul. Her facial expressions alone proved how much passion Fantasia was putting into her performance.

Fantasia

Fantasia

iPads and mobile phones tried to capture the moments but Fantasia has talent that is uncontainable. I entered the gig not knowing what to expect. Being impressed by her first two albums and her performance on American Idol, after all the gossip I’d seen about her online, I had forgotten what had made her famous.

What was special about her set was the sprinkling of odes to the music she had a personal connection with. From fragments of SWV’s Rain to Missy’s I Can’t Stand the Rain. This meteorological theme may symbolise the torrential weathering that Fantasia has endured.

But as in life Fantasia played on emotionally singing autobiographical material such as I’m His Only Woman through trembling lips. Fantasia came determined to satisfy all extremes of her diverse audience so it should perhaps be no surprise that she performed Prince’s Kiss. This was the perfect soundtrack to her jamming session and reason enough to kick off her shoes.

With the party truly started, she continued with her own material including the popular When I See You. Acknowledging those in the audience who like to be coy in showing their appreciation, Fantasia was underscored by her first cousins K-Ci and JoJo’s Get On Up, which was mixed with Overnight Scenario. This was followed by a snippet of Soul II Soul’s Back to Life.

Fantasia

Fantasia goes all out!

Fantasia’s vocals were superb and all the more uplifting to hear knowing she had survived a tumour on her vocal cords. Despite the odd sound problem, she shined as she continued with Teach Me and more jokes! She easily built a rapport with the crowd who were moved by her stirring rendition of Bob Marley’s No Woman No Cry, which was all too short.

But Fantasia has her own quality material to perform not least the Grammy award winning Bittersweet, which won her the Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance this year. Having arrived on stage with Grammy in hand, Fantasia had set the tone for an outstanding night.

Before the night was out she promised to take the audience to church and with I’m Doing Me, she did, after proclaiming that she no longer lives her life for folk! Her songs take on quite the confessional edge and she professed that she did not need a microphone as she gave her testimony. She really brought the house down when with a tearful and spine-tingling rendition of Even Angels.

To warm us up, Fantasia took us back to her first album to get up-tempo. Though she professed that the men in the audience may not like the song, she committed to her performance of Baby mama to the delight of the women in the audience. Perhaps to win the men back over, she sought a man to hold her, but when the offers came in she shied away saying she was ‘scarred’!

Fantasia

All eyes on Ms Barrino

She briefly went back to her Idol days with a too short performance of Summertime but as a silver lining to this cloud, her next song was the hit single Hood Boy. Having earlier hinted to her opposition to being separated from her fans, Fantasia got off stage to take photos and sing directly in front of the first row.

This was a polished set; Fantasia’s only failing was that she did not name check her extensive band featuring (two male and one female) backing singers, two keyboardists, a drummer, a guitarist, a trumpeter and a saxophonist, who like sorcerers, further fuelled the magic.

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The UK Corner concert review: Eric Benét @ Indigo2

Jeans, blazer, waistcoat, shirt, tie, shades; smart and sophisticated was the dress code for Eric Benét at this appearance at the Indigo2. Usually a resident at the Jazz Café, Benét transferred his intimate show to a larger venue without losing any intimacy. His falsetto alone can command attention in any environment. With the Furious Five as his backing band (John Rich – musical director/keys, Afton ‘AJ’ Johnson – bass, Johnny Johnson – guitar, John McVicker – drums/background vocals), Benét effortlessly entranced the audience singing hypnotic songs such as When You Think Of Me.
With charm and wit, the mesmerizing audio-induced trance was broken intermittently when a talkative Benét shared his musings even hinting at his initial meeting with his ex-wife Halle Berry. Laced with love, his set was the perfect backdrop for couples in the audience who embraced and danced to the romantic grooves.
Chocolate Legs from the Love and Life album got the whole crowd excited as Benét joked about the fans that had questioned his selective song title. He assured them that it was inclusive not exclusive referencing the array of chocolate available from caramel to butterscotch to Latin flavoured chocolate and Wasabi flavoured chocolate!

Eric Benét

Eric Benét just getting started!

The sweetness and diversity of Benét’s vocal ability can rival any type of confectionary. Many of the ladies in the audience would happily forfeit chocolate for Benét. There is one lady besides his fiancé Manuela Testolini who perhaps was the envy of all for she shared the stage with him. Leah Labelle was the sole backing singer. The Bulgarian star of American Idol took the reigns to sing the lyrics made famous by Tamia on the Grammy nominated wedding favourite Share My Life.
Milwaukee, Wisconsin native Benét continued his stellar performance going back to his first album True to Myself with the funky Spiritual Thang before bringing things up-to-date with the melancholy Sometimes I Cry and the haunting Never Want To Live Without You.
As a prelude to songs from his latest album Lost in Time which is tinged with seventies soul, Benét, 40, denounced the heavy reliance on modern technology and auto tune and praised the value of music which hits the heart – relying on real instrumentation and vocal ability. He preached to the converted who echoed his advocacy of passion over profit. Responsive, he not only took off his shades he was also open to requests. Jumping off the stage to shake hands and take photos it was at times hard to see the star but he kept shining.

Eric Benét

Benét the star...

It wasn’t all jazzy slow jams; Benét knows how to party and the energetic Feel Good, with Labelle taking Faith Evan’s part, and Weekend Girl, were the perfect soundtrack for the fiesta. The party threatened to end early when Benét left the stage but the audience demanded an encore not least because two of his most popular tracks from his second album A Day In The Life had yet to be sung.
The screams and applause were rewarded with the Latin infused Why You Follow Me which exceeds it’s infectious nature live. The party was in full swing now complete with steamy salsa dancing from Benét and the lucky Labelle. Georgey Porgy gave Labelle another chance to step into Evan’s shoes as she took her vocals but his time the duet became a threesome with the crowd enlisted for the chorus having warmed up with scales earlier! The temperature dipped a little when Benét revealed a little too much about one of his band members during their introductions. But if it was a bad move to get too personal it was a better move to pay homage to the King of Pop with a rendition of Michael Jackson’s Billie Jean. He may have ended with borrowed material but for 90 minutes Benét was unashamedly his soulful self. What more could you ask for?

Eric Benét

Just Benét, just his way!

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Good hair gone bad?

Brixton’s Ritzy Cinema is buzzing with excitement ­– the foyer is overflowing with people keen to watch, or re-watch, Good Hair – Chris Rock’s inspired documentary, which won the Special Jury Prize at the Sundance Film Festival. To add to the electrifying atmosphere, ‘the Rock’ is in the building and will be fielding questions after the film.

Powerful as it is, the film is informative, provocative and of course hairlirious! Rock is a natural documentarian and it should come as no surprise considering that his stand-up has always involved social commentary.

On this occasion black hair is under the microscope. Rock has faced a backlash from some who complain that he is washing ‘our dirty linen in public’. Indeed his appearance on the Graham Norton show in May caused a stir when he commented on Michelle Obama’s hair. Some felt that this was out of line and he was somehow exposing her.

Now while no woman would want all their beauty secrets revealed, black women shouldn’t feel ashamed about dying their hair, wearing weaves, wigs or hair pieces because such hair options are increasingly used by women of all ethnicities. Hairdresser Andrew Collinge commissioned a survey, which revealed that the average British woman changes her hairstyle 104 times in her lifetime. The main reasons being “boredom'” with their current look or the end of a relationship.

However, the film can easily be misunderstood. At the Ritzy when a white man stood up to ask Rock a question, he wanted to make himself heard amid the background noise. He jokingly referenced his own hair saying “Good Hair” as a license to speak. As the pantomime boos erupted Rock warned him that the place was liable to descend into a football match…

The idea has often been kicked around that black women wear weaves etc because they want to meet western standards of beauty and have issues with identity. In the film Rock passes no judgment but he has said that if the film could make one difference, he hopes kiddie perms could be removed from shelves.

“When it comes to kids you do go, ‘Wow! Are you nuts?’ The little girl in the chair with all that relaxant (sodium hydroxide) in her hair! And she wasn’t even crying. She’s had so much of it that she’s actually used to it. Her head has a high tolerance for burning. Stuff like that makes me go, ‘Why are you putting that in a little girl’s hair?”

Chris Rock

Chris Rock oversees an early application of relaxer

The film was inspired by Rock’s daughter Lola who asked, ‘Daddy, how come I don’t have good hair?” But the kernel for the film was planted years before. He says, “It was over 20 years ago, and I was in Atlanta and I stumbled across the Bronner Bros hair show. I thought straightaway that it was a movie, but back then they weren’t doing funny documentaries. There was no reality TV shows. No Internet. It was another world. So you jump ahead to now, and my daughters are having hair issues, saying, ‘How come I don’t have good hair?’ meaning, hair like they see in the media, not African hair, and I start to think, Maybe I can do a movie about that hair show now?”

But what is Good Hair? It has often been perceived as hair that is manageable and long. Biblically, your hair is your crown and glory. Imagine if you had alopecia or lost your hair due to chemotherapy, wouldn’t you simply miss your own hair whatever it was like? It is true that weaves and extensions can damage your hair through causing undue tension. Pictures of Naomi Campbell in June were testimony to this fact.

Renee Lagrange of the Black Hair Clinic in Harley Street is a Trichologist specialising in black hair, she says, “Good Hair is by definition healthy hair which will retain length and full density. The key to healthy hair is hydration. If you want “Good Hair” you have to work hard at it and be consistent.”

Hair can be a delicate subject but Rock, who has sported several hairstyles over the years including Jheri Curl, is never one to shy away from controversy. He makes jokes about public personas such as Prince.

Rock says, “… You don’t want to hurt anyone. I knew people would all be sensitive about their hair. So no one got hurt. Unless Prince is mad. But I haven’t spoken to him in a while…

“When I’m doing a show, I think a show where people are a little pissed off in the middle is a better show then a show where everybody’s just laughing mindlessly for a whole hour. I want them happy, I want them sad, and I want them clapping, and booing. That’s a show. That’s a journey.”

In the film, several celebrities speak candidly about hair including Salt n Pepa, who reveal where Pepa’s distinctive asymmetric hair style evolved from and Nia Long who debates the impact of hair and dating. Rock has had longstanding relationships with many of the celebrities, and his credits as a Director and Producer on his show Everybody Hates Chris meant that few said no, but there were exceptions.

Chris Rock in the salon

Would you say no to Chris?

“I tried to get Diana Ross, because a lot of people talked about Diana Ross on camera. But we had to cut it out in the end, because she didn’t want to do it, and it didn’t seem right to have them talking about her without her commenting on it. Plus, it’s a documentary, and you’re asking for people’s time, and you’re not paying them for it. Someone like Diana Ross has a right to stay in her house.”

But it is not only stars that are contributing to America’s multi-billion dollar black hair industry. Rock encounters everyday people on his whistle stop tour through beauty salons and barbershops who invest a lot of money in weaves.

Members of the audience at the Ritzy wondered if Rock was moved to invest in the infrastructure of the industry and move it out of the hands of Asian business people but as Rock said, it is literally their hair that is being sold!

His most intriguing characters are part of the hairstyling battles that were reminiscent of the Afro Hair and Beauty Show. But while they make you smile, the people he meets in the scientific laboratories that demonstrate the destructive nature of relaxers or ‘creamy crack,’ and his visit to an Indian temple to see where the human hair originates, makes you wonder if the sacrifices are worth it.

Perhaps the most disturbing scene is when Rock goes into a hair shop and tries to sell real Afro hair and they decline his offer saying it wouldn’t sell. I was saddened when I once saw young girls on the bus mocking a girl because she had her hair out in an Afro and they felt it was unkempt. I wondered if we as their elders owed it to them to embrace our natural selves and remind them how beautiful it can be.

It would be sad if the next generation sees the iconic symbolism of Angela Davis’ Afro as passé. In the film, a young student said an Afro would not be suitable for the workplace. But an Afro should be seen as empowering not threatening. This was a sentiment that I tried to express in my poem I am My Hair published in Nicole Moore ‘s Hair Power Skin Revolution.

Rock did not set out to define what good hair is but why his daughter felt the need to ask the question. He doesn’t tell women how to wear their hair noting that both his wife and mother had relaxed their hair at sometime, the film is not a crusade to encourage black women to grow locks. Instead he encourages women to do what feels right for them.

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The UK Corner comes home!

Way back in May 2007 I launched a column on www.eurweb.com called The UK Corner designed to promote British Urban musicians abroad. After three years of building up contacts, expanding to focus on film and theatre and people commenting on my ‘blog’ I decided that the column needed to grow…that’s where Wordpess came in.

Here you can get even more from the The UK Corner the digital platform designed to promote British urban entertainment at home and abroad and to give a British perspective on urban entertainment from around the globe.

The web space will allow British urban entertainers to gain exposure in new territories  in front of an international virtual community. In a regular update, The UK Corner will highlight the best of British urban entertainment and the unique experiences that British fans of global urban entertainment  receive on their own soil.

So Jump on board and enjoy the ride!

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