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The UK Corner book review: The Wealth Cure: Putting Money in its Place by Hill Harper

With news reports threatening another recession, many people around the world would do well to read this book. Though Actor/New York Times best selling author Hill Harper speaks primarily to an American audience, his messages are universal. The Wealth Cure is an antidote to the long-standing toxic culture of excess, which pervades much of the world. Harper questions the allure of ‘bling’, the constant need to upgrade and the pressure/desire to keep up with the Joneses, and explores what these things conceal.

He diagnoses spiritual impoverishment within a society with misaligned values. His suggested remedies for austerity include changing attitudes and putting money in its place. To change our definition of wealth and find balance, Harper challenges us to list the factors which make us feel wealthy bearing in mind this formula: money+wellness=wealth. It is an apt equation considering that the book was inspired by Harper’s shock diagnosis with thyroid cancer.

With our new perspective, Harper encourages us to be grateful for our bills (yes, you read right but remember we have a new perspective), and to improve our financial literacy by learning about the stock exchange, mortgages, our credit scores, taking calculated investment risks, managing our money with budgets, being practical about wills and health insurance, and saving. He pleads for us to comply with our own financial rescue plans so that we can maintain financial health and wealth, thrive, and survive, in turbulent economic times.

As we take control and become more empowered with our choices, more confident, responsible, patient and focused – more of our best selves, we are encouraged to see money as a tool, an energetic tool, which we can use as architects in our own lives, carving out our dreams. And we can still dream according to Harper, if we wake up and smell the coffee about true wealth.

He does not preach that we should abandon all desire for material things – many of which depreciate – though he does cite Director Tom Shadyac’s documentary I Am, which detailed how Shadyac downgraded his possessions to live a simpler life. The only thing Harper insists is that we consider what we truly need, and that we should simply ‘hail happiness’ and desire ‘unreasonable joy.’

Hill Harper

money+wellness=wealth

The Wealth Cure is a joy to read largely due to its engaging parable approach and wise words, many of which are passed on from Harper’s friends and relatives. Other pull-quotes come from sources as varied as Rappers Ice Cube and Will Smith, to philosophers, religious leaders and financial advisers. The pages are also decorated with Harper’s passion for Etymology, and adorned with inspiring examples of resourcefulness and entrepreneurship embodied by the likes of Shane and Shawn Ward.

Though Harvard graduate Harper does make a distinction between ‘smart money’ such as cash spent on goods and services that we need, and ‘dumb money’ such as interest on credit cards, this is not a dry tale of profit and loss. It is far richer than that – laced with history lessons about the likes of Dred Scott and George Pullman.

Documenting the cross-country train ride, which was the breeding ground for much of the copy, Harper, who has had successful surgery, takes the reader on an emotional journey where we can meet the characters in his life, and learn from their relationships with money; good and bad, as we begin to reevaluate our own.

The Wealth Cure is out now published by Gotham Books priced $26/£18.99 RRP. It is also available as an E-Book and as Penguin Audio.

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Congratulations…Beyonce is pregnant!

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Beyonce arrives at the 2011 MTV Video Music Awards in LA to make an award worthy announcement

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Aaliyah Dana Haughton RIP

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Aaliyah Dana Haughton 1979 - 2001

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RIP Nick Ashford

Nickolas Ashford

Nick Ashford

Like all fans of good music, I was shocked to hear about the passing of Motown songwriter Nickolas Ashford this week. Ironically his death was somewhat overshadowed in the media by the equally tragic passing of Jerry Leiber who penned many hits for Elvis Presley.

The legacy of both writers is in their catalogues. Ashford, who met his wife and songwriting partner Valerie Simpson in church, wrote classics such as You’re All I Need To Get By and the Chaka Khan hit, I’m Every Woman. As a duet the couple are best known for the 1980s anthem with Solid (As A Rock). They were inducted into into the Songwriters Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2002.

Overcoming homelessness at the start of his journey to success, Ashford, and his wife went on to pen songs for the likes of Ray Charles’s (Let’s Get Stoned), Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell (Ain’t Nothing Like The Real Thing), and Diana Ross’s first solo single, Reach Out and Touch (Somebody’s Hand). Ashford and Simpson also grace the sleeve notes of Amy Winhouse’s Back To Black album with a co-writing credit on Tears Dry On Their Own, which contains a sample from Ain’t No Mountain High Enough.

Ashford and Simpson’s last release was the 2009 CD and DVD of their live performances titled The Real Thing.  The 14 track CD with 65 minutes of vibrant live footage is a ticket to experience the musical magic that iconic singer-songwriters Ashford and Simpson embody. Ashford and Simpson are stamped all over modern times being sampled on Mary J Blige and Method Man’s You’re All I Need To Get By, and with a timely remix to Solid (Solid (As Barack), released for Obama’s 2008 inauguration, and parodied on Saturday Night Live, they proved that they remained relevant.

Recipients of The American Society of Composers, Authors and Publishers’ (ASCAP) highest honour, The Founder’s Award in 1999, Ashford and Simpson’s music is epitomised as being the fine wine of the industry – only sounding better with age. Young and old indulge in their refreshing bridge from old school to new school.

Tributes have poured in from the music world for the musical genius who is survived by his wife and their daughters Nicole and Asia. Due to Hurricane Irene Ashford’s funeral has been delayed until Monday 29 August. Mr Ashford thank you for the inspiration; rest in peace.

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Hairstyle Influences of R&B Stars

In June of this year, a judge in the United Kingdom ruled that a school’s ban on a young boy’s cornrows was “indirect racial discrimination.” The High Court ruled against St. Gregory’s Catholic Science College, a secondary school in North London, England.

In September 2009, the Boy, known as “G,” was refused entry on his first day for breaking the strict uniform policy. It is reported that the school was concerned that some hairstyles represented the gang culture in the area. The school, which is rated as excellent by the regulator Ofsted, allegedly prefers hairstyles with a short back and sides. It apparently also bans fully shaven hair, to avoid the skinhead look associated with right wing racist groups.

R Kelly

Have stars such as R Kelly popularised cornrows for males?

The court was reportedly told that cornrows were part of G’s family tradition and that he had not cut his hair since birth. The family’s attorney, Angela Jackman, from Maxwell Gillott, said: “…St Gregory’s Catholic Science College operates a policy which does not fully comply with current equalities legislation. We believe it discriminates against boys of African heritage by disregarding a widely recognized cultural practice.”

The case caused widespread debate with some saying that all pupils should have to comply with such uniform policies to enforce discipline, and that the ban would apply in countries such as Jamaica.

Since I was a young girl, and still to this day, I have occasionally worn cornrows. However, I recall men and boys adopting the look being a more recent thing in England–hairstyles with a short back and side being more popular when I was growing up. I think the way boys wear their hair owes something to their cultural heritage dating back to Africa or the Caribbean, but it also owes something to fashion and to their cultural icons.

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